Set High on A Pedestal.

THE TALK:

so, i was talking to one of my girlfriends today and we were talking about guys, obviously it's already become a natural thing to do when we get together. haha! anyway, we were talking things through and then she recommended me to look for my crush's profile, in short. go on another stalking adventure online.. :) and so i did. i came across a million profiles who had the same name as my crush had but eventually i found what i was looking for. hahaha!

THE PROFILE:

meeeeen. he is so into boy scouting. really, i dont mind but, if he like, if its like, one of his oh-so-huge joys in life, then. it might be a turn-off. still, i continued trudging on his site till i saw, he's freakin rich! he got to be in London. and who knows where else he's already been in!? it's kind of frustrating, when you know he's been to places, that as of now are only in your dreams..

THE BOYS:

if you think this blog is all about crushes, think again. it's also about guys who i wouldn't really taken notice of, but due to charmagne's statements, they might stand a teeny bit of a chance. lol, here are some few.

THE STATEMENTS:

that made me laugh out loud cause they're so true. and im quoting doll for all these,

• "haha ang funny ng mga guys na di kagwapuhan... kasi they have all the guts to tell girls na may crush siya sayo.."
• "kaya siguro common yung maganda yung girl tapos di kagwapuhan yung bf"
• "theory ko, pag maganda yung girl, nahihiya yung may itsurang guys na manligaw or something... kasi nga naman pag nabasted sila, mawawasak lang naman ang kanilang ego!"
• "eh pag di kagwapuhan yung guy, sus, walang ego ego! go lang ng go!"

CRITICAL THINKING:

now those are perfectly true! :) it may not be entirely applicable for all relationships but it's the common case. you see girls who are better off with someone better and you think to yourself, "how the hell did she fall for a guy (looking) like him?" and then you just shrug off thhe question cause, it's freaky. and funny all the same. :) anyhow. they are evil thoughts. i agree :)) and now that they're all out in the open, im sorry my dear boys who think they're soo hott. i can't blame you though cause some girls actually fall for you, and i cant do anything about that.

PEDESTAL:

and then it got me thinking why i still don't have a boyfriend till now. because, i dont wanna end up like any of those girls. :)) that's why my ideal guy is set high on a pedestal, cause even i can't reach him yet. i don't even think i'm going to be able to find anyone like him. :)

IDEAL GUY:

So im listing a FEW of my ideal guy requirements for two reasons. One, I'm bored and I've got nothing to do. Two, so that when a guy moves in on me, I can turn him down easily by reminding him of this list. Lol, Evil-ness.

• plays basketball/football
• plays the guitar/drums/keyboard.
• loves music
• loves swimming
• takes control
• keeps his cool
• can annoy me
• can make me laugh
• dresses well
• sings/dances well
• loves to write
• is spontaneous
• is not romantic/corny
• watches TV
• knows how to cook
• reads the news or watches it
• has a "barkada"
• earns a lot of money
• saves it
• is a real man
• doesn't play
• doesn't flirt back
• is smart enough
• is not mean to animals
• is a gentleman
• keeps his promise
• usually doesn't promise
• knows how to drive
• can teach me how to drive
• doesn't curse
• doesn't smoke
• knows how to kiss me
  
• knows how to please me
  
• is not extravagant
• spends his money well
• manages his time well
• is a bum like me
• knows how to work hard
• smiles at me when i need it
• encourages me to do my best
• knows my favorite food
• loves God more than me
• loves my family

more to come soon. :) and it does sound like a list of who i wanna marry and not who i wanna date. lol! i think, the ones i've written here are pretty much common things. there aren't anything weird of far out like what i was expecting to be writing. LOL. maybe theyre all in my head. :)

THE REALIZATION:

if i wanted a boyfriend, i could have gotten one ages ago. but, the problem is not the guy, it's me. im the one who's too stubborn. and everything i wrote on that list, i must be able to do or have first before i can be confident to enter into one. well, i dont mind being stubborn. as far as im concerned, boyfriends are just temporary happiness. they dont last. the pain, on the other hand does. so why settle for temporary joy when you can have everlasting joy and peace from Him? for me, He is enough. more than anything.

and that, is the story of my life.. :)